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Dating ideas for November

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London-Brighton Vintage Car Rally (7th Nov)

Are you tired of meeting up with new people in pubs and coffee shops, fancy doing something different?  Now is the time to get more creative in your ideas for dates.  Let’s face it, meeting up with a new person can be a little nerve racking, and we over 40s have been and done many things already!  A new shared experience can open up a new world, and get that first date off to a flying start! Looking for something interesting, quirky, entertaining…  Take a look at our suggestions below for fantastic ideas for dating singles in the UK this November.

London to Brighton Veteran Car Rally

Are you in the south of the country? Are vintage cars your thing? If so, then book your diary for Saturday November 7th.  Get yourself up to Hyde Park if you are interested in seeing the cars assemble for their journey south.  The first run took place in 1896 – and this year, 550 pre-1905 cars will be taking place.  They depart from the Park in pairs between 7:04am and 8:40, and arrive in Brighton anytime after 10am.  They travel the 60 mile journey at 20mph, primarily down the A23.  Pick a good spot for a picnic, and watch the cars pass, or watch from the start, or congregate at the finish.  It is a memorable event, particularly, to remember as a first date! Visit their website for more details.

If you don’t drive, do you drink?

The Campaign for Real Ale (CAMRA) has over 1000 members and organises real ale festivals throughout the country.  If you would like to share your enjoyment of real ale with your date, then look no further than the CAMRA site for details of a festival near you.  In November – festivals include: Swindon, Wakefield, Woking, Watford, Belfast, Wantage, Rochford, Dudley and Heathrow.  Happy drinking, and take care you don’t drink too much!

And elsewhere around the country…

  • Bath – the 20th Film Festival takes place between 10th and 20th November.
  • Tenby – we have a Blue’s Festival 12-14th November
  • Dundee – Jazz Festival – November
  • Brighton Early Music Festival is in full swing, and continues to the 7th November.
  • And Glasgay, is Scotland’s celebration of queer culture – until 13th November.
  • Swansea – the Dylan Thomas festival continues to the 9th November.
  • For Classical music, look to the web sites of City of Birmingham Symphony Orchestra or the Royal Liverpool Philharmonic, the South Bank or the Halle Orchestra (Manchester) for the current list of performances.

These are just a selection of the many interesting events that are taking place around the country over the next month.  If you take a look, you will find even more that are suitable for dating singles.  If you know other people who are meeting up for the dates, why not suggest you attend some of these events with other couples?  The more the merrier at these types of events!

Paula.

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Halloween for Grown ups

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Halloween is both a Celtic festival and a Christian holiday All Saints’ Day, celebrated every year on October 31st.  The event is increasingly observed by children, who enjoy dressing up in scary costumes and trick or treating.

However, the celebrations need not be solely for the younger generation, and there is great fun for adults to be had as well.  Not only can we get into the spirit of the event by decorating our front porches with pumpkins, dressing as ghosts, devising pranks and supplying copious amounts of sweets to the trick or treaters, but it is also a time for us to indulge in our own, adult festivities as well.

Fancy dress party for the Over 40s!

Halloween is the perfect opportunity for adult singles to let their hair down and dress up for the evening.  Costumes are easily rented these days, and provide an easy ice breaker for conversations between singles at parties.  Even M&S have a small line of adult costumes this year!  With such a strong theme, a party need only provide the atmosphere and a couple of simple activities to keep your guests entertained.  Try changing your light bulbs to red, drape your venue with white sheets, hang spiders from ceilings and fake cobwebs from door frames.  Set up apple-bobbing, devise tricks for your guests and get them to play ghoulish charades.  Find some horror movies to play in the background and get some monster movie soundtracks!

Haunted House Weekend.

Google “haunted house weekends” and a long list of events and venues pops up for you.  Some offer murder mystery weekends, as well as opportunities to bring dating singles together.  Whether you wish to go on a ghost hunt, an evening event, or a full weekend stay, the option to have a memorable Halloween is out there.

Hold an adult garden party.

Now the nights have drawn in, the garden party, with bonfire, costumes and festive foods is the easiest way to pull people together to celebrate the event.  The proximity to Guy Faulkes night means that fireworks are readily available to add a special sparkle to your evening.  Hold a pumpkin carving competition and ask your guests to “bring a pumpkin!” – the produce will illuminate your garden and create atmosphere! Festive foods include anything pumpkin, as well as hearty stews, Colcannon and the opportunity to go mad decorating your cup cakes and biscuits!  You can also provide more simple finger food, decorated with clever “blood” tinged sandwiches (cochineal and tomato skins) and spider webbed quiches or pizzas, or anything ghostly!  To intoxicate your adult guests, try some spooky cocktails!  Try the Foodnetwork.com for some tasty recipes!

Whatever you end up doing on Saturday 30th October, have a GREAT time!

Paula Taylor

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Are you the outdoors type? Fancy getting yourself wet and muddy on a beautiful autumnal morning in the Kent countryside? If so, our friends at ClickSingles.co.uk might have just the thing for you…

On Sunday 17th October, at 10.30am, there’s a walk being organised. It’s a 4.5 mile walk. Janet (the Guide)’s walks always receive excellent feedback from members and they are attracting a steady number of singles who wish to socialise and chat whilst taking in the countryside and taking light exercise.

Here are some details for you:

Venue: The Spotted Dog, Tonbridge, Kent

Price: £5.00

Member price: £2.00

In order to find out more, go to ClickSingles’ Sunday morning walks page

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Are your toes really as big as your balcony?

As the nights draw in and the colder weather sets in, we can all look forward to wrapping up for brisk walks and cosy nights in by the fire.  With Halloween, Bonfire Night and Christmas on the horizon, now is the time to start building relationships ready for this outdoor season! To improve your chances of meeting the right new people, now is the time to look through your profile and make sure you are presenting your best in your profile.

Photos to attract Senior Singles …

Lets face it, it takes courage to post your photo on a senior dating site.  I remember being nervous about the first time, that someone at work might see me, and that by posting my picture, I was inviting colleagues to read my profile (or not!).  I soon discovered that I was getting little interest, and no one was looking at my profile with no photo – so I took the plunge and posted one.  Then, after a while, I posted a nicer one, particularly when I saw the lovely pictures that some people post.  It is very much a first impression thing – we wouldn’t wear a shabby suit to a job interview now would we!

What works well on Dating sites?

It is a well know fact among dating sites that photos improve a person’s chance of attracting viewers to their profile.  Recent research of 7000 profiles by OKCUPID has revealed some interesting trends and effectiveness  of different types of photos on dating site profiles.

Photos of women tend to receive more interest (contact via the dating site) if the subject is looking directly at the camera, smiling or is engaged in doing something interesting.  The “Myspace photo” where the subject is taking a self portrait from their mobile camera, and looking upwards, tends to receive the most interest.  Although shots of cleavage (particularly in youth) attracted greater response, generally this interest was not reciprocated – so in the end attracted the “wrong sort”… but then we all knew that anyway didn’t we!

Conversely, male shots received more interest, or were more likely to be responded to, if they didn’t look at the camera, and were NOT smiling.  Women prefer to see their men outdoors, perhaps with their chest revealed (particularly among the younger population!) and also to see men with their pets!  Men were not interested in women with pets or travel pictures.

Most surprisingly, our heads don’t need to be in the photo to attract interest.  A photo of you climbing some spectacular scenery, or perhaps a photo of your hands busy creating a clay pot, or playing a piano’s keys attracts interest, and makes it easy to strike a conversation, particularly to those interested in that same hobby.

Suggestions for over 40s dating photos?

Take the above research as you will, it is in the end what you feel comfortable with.  The most important thing about your photo, is that you are honest.  It may be a picture of feet, caked in ashes and black charcoal – but as long as it is YOUR feet that ran through the fire, then the photo is a way to start a conversation, and says a LOT about you.  A word of warning however, we do advise that you see a photo of anyone you are likely to meet head of any face to face meeting.  Best of luck with your photos, and have a great time meeting other senior singles.

Paula

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The art of dating over 40?

By admin | Filed in Senior Dating
Is there an art to dating over 40?  We think there is, but it’s really not that different to dating at any age – the same dating tips apply. In other words, nothing really changes in terms of approach, personal relationships, and human interaction just because you are over the age of 40 and looking to meet someone or make friends.
Many people entering the dating scene after the age of 40 will do so after being out of it for a long time. Divorce is a common reason why many older singles return to the dating scene. But also there is a growing number of people at this age who decided never to marry, but are now looking for a longer-term relationship (although not necessarily marriage!)
Regardless of the reason, here are some helpful words of encouragement: you can enter the dating scene at any age and find it quite a rewarding experience. So, do not assume age will have any bearing on how effective your dating life becomes.
That said, there may be a few additional concerns that dating over 40 brings along. One is that the over 40s will frequently need to deal with professional responsibilities that might compete for their time. That can cut into their ability to head out into the world and pursue dating fully. When you are working 60 or more hours a week it can be a little tough to find free time to date. But that’s why internet dating is so useful for those busy professionals. You can access the dating site and those members of it at any time of the day or night. This means no schedule will lock you out of a dating scene.
Online dating also allows you to find potential partners and friends that are closer to your type and needs.
Communication on online dating sites allows you to meet people in a light-hearted, unserious manner that comes with no stress. And that helps you boost your dating success potential immensely.
Yes, this certainly does make dating over 40 sound easy. Through an effective online dating site like MatureFreeAndSingle.com, your efforts to find new friends and relationships are hugely improved. Why not take the plunge today, and good luck!!
The MFS Team

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Staying fit at over 40

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Far too much energy after 10 miles!

Paula (MFS Founder) proved yesterday that we over 40s are anything but over the hill! Paula is now in training for the South Downs Marathon in April 2011, and as part of her training plan entered the Eridge Park 10 Mile Race.

Paula hadn’t run this far before, so was a little nervous, but put in a time of 1hr 43mins…a great time! And what was really encouraging for us all was the sheer number of competitors who were 40+! Out of a field of around 600 competitors, there were easily more than 150 “seniors” in the race, just going to show how popular running has become as a sport for us older members of society, and how more and more of us are looking for ways to stay fit as we get older.

Well done, Paula, and good luck with the Marathon training!

The MFS Team

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MFS Gets a Makeover

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We’ve been working for some time on a new look to your favourite senior dating site, and this morning we’re proud to say it’s LIVE!

Login now and see how things have changed. We haven’t done away with any of the great features you like…we’ve just made the whole site cleaner and easier to use. Here are some of the things you’ll find:

  • it’s easier to find the members you’re looking for, with Simple, Detailed and Gallery views of all members
  • an easier-to-use inbox and messaging system, allowing you to swap quickly between messages, gifts, favourites and support
  • simple access to all your account settings, putting you in more control of your senior dating experience while you’re with us.

We’d love to hear your views!

We’ve put these changes together as a result of listening to your feedback. Please help us to improve further, by giving us honest feedback on how you find this new look.

All the best and good luck

Paula

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Congratulations, if you have found this article, you are already navigating your way around the internet, and this dating site blog!

Computers in the Grand Scheme of things…

Computers trace their origins back to the ‘50s, and began to fall into mainstream society in the early 80s with the introduction of IBM home computers and then with the launch of Microsoft Windows operating system they became commonplace.  Internet functionality started off a simple Email system, which evolved into the World Wide Web in the early ‘90s – only 20 years ago!  You may be surprised to learn that Google only launched their search engine in 1998 and that Ebay is only 15 years old.  These are all very recent features of modern day life, but now integral to everyone’s work and social life.  It has certainly rivalled traditional methods of dating extremely quickly.

A study by JupiterResearch expects that by 2011, 22 percent of the Earth’s population will be able to surf the Internet. The report also says that 1.1 billion people already have regular access to the Internet. The study excluded access to the web from mobile telephones.  In 2011 the world’s population will reach 7 billion.

The Evolution of Internet Dating and Computers.

Looking at the time man has walked this planet, computers and the web have been around an incredibly short time – lets say 30 years in the public domain, and already nearly 20% of the world’s population has access to it.  Already nearly 20% of the world’s population has access to internet dating sites – no wonder it is an increasingly popular way to meet new people.

I was lucky enough to have access to electric typewriters when I went to school…the year before me had to use the manual ones.  The youngsters of today are growing up using computers.  Even pre-schools for 3-4 year olds now come complete with computers, loaded ready with programs to assist learning – and children are picking it up fast.  By 4 they can use the mouse, the cursors, and if only they could read, would be all over the place!

Help for Internet Users

We mature adults need all the help we can get keeping up with technology available to us these days.  It does after all enable us to share photos with family abroad, keep in touch with everyone by email, or other social sites, go shopping late at night when the shops are shut, keep us up to date on local or world affairs – and enable us to connect with other adults who may be looking for friendship.

If you think you could use some help navigating the internet world – then look to your local Adult Education Centre.  They offer a huge variety of courses – from programming, to basic computer use.  The direct.gov.uk site searches the entire UK for courses available in your area – and can also provide a list of distance or online learning solutions.  Your local library is also a good starting point. Some courses are free, (see the BBC site) so search “Internet Courses Free” and see what comes up.  Best of luck!

Paula Taylor

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Holiday Ideas for Senior Singles

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You could try walking holidays in the Alps

The holiday season is here at last, and the travel opportunities available to us these days are endless.  However, it may seem a daunting prospect to many, booking to go on holiday on your own.  If you are clear what you want out of your holiday, and plan it carefully, you can have a fantastic time.

Holidays include any or a combination of: -   Pursuing an interest, hobby or sport, relaxing or exploring.

Special interest holidays for singles:

This type of holiday will give you the opportunity to learn or take part in a planned activity whilst mixing with others with similar interests.  You may be regarded as a “single” in a “group” and may mingle or retreat from this group as you like.   There are now websites catering for every interest.  Whether you fancy pottery classes in Tuscany, white water rafting in Colorado or fossil hunting at Freshwater Bay – everything is possible and most sites offer huge flexibility, so you can organize exactly the type of holiday you are looking for.

Justyou.co.uk specializes in singles holidays. They offer “discovery weekends” in the UK, for you to have a go at a ”singles” weekend before you book anything international, as well as follow up days in UK hotels, to meet up with people who you have met on their holidays.  Their choice of adventure, cultural, all-inclusive, cruising, nature loving, and shopping holidays should give you some inspiration.

If you are looking for a more spiritual experience, Journeysofthespirit.com provides a broad catalogue of holidays with an underlying spiritual experience.  These include hiking, photography and retreats to name but a few.

For our sporty singles, Alpineelements.co.uk arranges trips to the Alps to experience the beauty of nature and adrenalin rushes.

For a truly memorable and worthwhile experience, check out Gapyearfor adults.com.  They offer holidays overseas which have a life experience to them.  You can volunteer to help a community, learn a skill or language, or work with animals.

If your interests are closer to home, then try the National Trust.  They offer a whole host of holidays – from volunteering your services at one of their UK sites, to activity holidays across the UK and beyond.

From golfing,  bowling, tennis, diving, swimming courses, archery, bird watching, deer stalking, learning to paint, horse riding, fishing, white water rafting, skiing, if you can think of it, it is out there – so make the most of it whilst you are able to indulge your interest!

Beach holidays for singles:

All inclusive package deals are also ideal, as they provide you with a fixed base, and all meals included and often the option of signing up for excursions with the hotel or local companies for days out if you are interested.   Again, Justyou.co.uk specializes in all inclusive holidays for singles, or try voyagertraveldirect.co.uk – who has special offers for singles.

Singles go explore!

For the braver amongst you, a safari, trek across a continent, or epic train journey may be more your thing.   Explore.co.uk sends you off to see the world with others, as small groups and is considerate of the needs of their single travelers.

For something different, why not try a train journey.  Greatrail.com offer sociable mealtimes, smaller group sizes and no single supplement.  Travel to Bavaria, Berlin, or Venice as a small group and watch the world pass by your window or meet your fellow passengers, as you please.  There is also the Orient Express, if you fancy journeys further afield.

And not to be scoffed at, Saga offers a huge selection of singles holidays, both relaxing and stimulating, and don’t miss their research on travel insurance as well.

Wherever you go, and whatever you do, have a great holiday!

Paula Taylor

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Well, thanks to you our valued members, we had one of the busiest days ever on MatureFreeAndSingle.com yesterday (Sunday 11th July). Our servers were buzzing as people logging in rose by 33% through the day. And members sending messages to each other was at an all time high…up by 64%!

Once again, many thanks to all of you who took part. We really hope you enjoyed yourselves and hopefully made some new connections!

And if you couldn’t make it this time around, don’t worry! This was such a success we’ll try and host another Free Messaging Day some time later in the year.

All the best

Paula

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